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Camille Pagán's avatar

I love this so much. I tell my clients all the time that we have to take ourselves seriously before anyone else does.

Candice Wiswell, PhD's avatar

Thank you so much. I’ve followed your podcast and newsletter for years, and your perspective has helped me take my writing more seriously, too. Really appreciate you saying this.

Camille Pagán's avatar

That is such a compliment—thank you!! Loving your newsletter as well!

John Lockley's avatar

I feel attacked

Candice Wiswell, PhD's avatar

LOL oh no! You got this. Let me know if you want to talk through it.

John Lockley's avatar

I’m kidding lol

It’s just that you said “hobby” and I felt chains tighten around my heart

Candice Wiswell, PhD's avatar

Oof, yes. That tightening—the chains feeling—I know it well. It can be easy to brush past it and keep going, but those reactions usually mean something important is stirring underneath. I’m glad you named it here.

John Lockley's avatar

That important thing would be a looming deadline and a handwritten outline lol

Candice Wiswell, PhD's avatar

I hear that! Deadlines motivate but can also overwhelm. What helps me in those moments is to make a small action. It could be re-reading that handwritten outline or the last couple of paragraphs you wrote. It could even be writing a bunch of curse words in a notebook about how frustrated you are. (The last one is my fave… and the more unhinged, the better. 😅)